As men, we like it when ladies give us the ‘P’ sooner rather than later. This is simply because with ‘sooner’, we get the fruits of your labor much quicker. In other words, we don’t invest too much. But there is a bigger problem. Most of us lose interest if a lady gives up the punani too quick.

So ladies, here are the signs that you gave a man the ‘P’ too quick;

1. The first s£x with him was somewhere that’s not the bedroom:

Maybe it was on the toilet of a club in tao where you just met. Maybe it was at a bush. Maybe it was in a car. Or someplace similar where there’s usually no bed involved
9 out of 10 men immediately lose respect for a woman they have a first s£xual encounter with in one of these raunchy places. If the first time you had s£x with him, it wasn’t in your bedroom or his… You probably gave up the goodies too fast. You are probably slutty too.

Don’t be surprised when he dodges titles like “beb” and sweetheart” and avoids your questions about long term commitment. Friends with benefits is as far as this relationship will go.

2. He gives you “Blue Ticks” On Whatsapp after s£x:

He stops texting you. So you slept together after your first or second date. It wasn’t anything planned. It just felt natural. The chemistry was too strong for you to resist. And now it’s the day after, and you’ve got that after s£x glow.

You’re telling your BFFs how happy you are, but silently you also have that nasty guilt feeling, like you did something wrong that you will be judged for. Now you find yourself at home, trying to rationalize the guilt, waiting for him to call. Or text. But he doesn’t…

When you ask him why, he gets angry and defensive. Or he just doesn’t respond. All your messages are ‘seen’ but not responded to. Sorry gal.You opened your legs too quickly.

3. He stops asking you out.

Before you slept together, he always wanted to take you out to IMAX, Java, Panari etc, now he’s nowhere to be found? The rate of dates has dropped faster than you can say “it’s over”. You definitely gave up the punani too fast.

4. He doesn’t pay the same amount of attention to you.

He used to be all over you when spending time together. He held your door, paid for lunches, asked about your day.

Now he keeps your conversations to a bare minimum and doesn’t really seem to have interest? This is another revealing sign that you had s£x with him far too soon.

5. You see him with another girl soon after he banged you.

If he’s already banging someone else soon after he was with you, then chances are that you didn’t leave a lasting impression. That’s because you gave it up too soon and he saw you as nothing more than a one night stand

6.  He says he is not ready for a serious commitment.

When a guy tells you this after recently shagging you, you might as well get emotionally ready to go through an unavoidable breakup. Once again, you gave up the ‘P’ too fast.